
Here is the proud daddy with Son #1, eighteen years ago. Just a few hours before I got peed in the face. Ahhhh, boys.
Well, a few momentous occasions down, a couple more to go. Tomorrow is our 25th anniversary. Words cannot express what I am feeling.
Today, Daughters #2 & #3, my mom and I celebrated Jim by doing something totally nuts. Yes, we did indeed get tattoos. Jim is up in heaven having a conniption fit. But heck, I figure it's his fault. If he were still here there's no way I'd have done this. But he's not, and I did.
Here's the beginning. Not so bad .... at first. And then, I tried really, really hard to not cry. I didn't, but I had to do a lot of Lamaze breathing to get through it. And squeeze all of the blood out of Daughter #1's hand.
This is the finished product. It's Jim's signature (too cool how they can replicate that) on top of a heart. Underneath the heart is the verse from our wedding, Song of Songs 8:7. It's written on the right side of my blog ---------->.
This is Daughter #2 getting hers done. I didn't get a very good picture, but it says "Wherever they'll grow" with a picture of a forget-me-not. For those of you who were at Jim's memorial, it's what she talked about (she wanted to be like her dad -- she hopes that when she's gone it may be said of her that she plucked out thistles and planted flowers wherever they would grow).
And here's Daughter #3. She decided to break hers up and put one on each wrist. On one she has the Hebrew letters spelling Yaweh. On the other is a verse that has meant a lot to her since December: 1 Corinthians 15:19.
So there you have it --- the path to insanity caught on film. But we like them. They mean a lot to us, more than I've even written here. It's like still having Jim as a part of me, literally.
Oh, and my mom got one, too! See ...... we're all crazy!! She got a daisy on her shoulder. It's cute. Three generations of tattooed women.
I wonder what's next?!
16 comments:
hmmm.... i heard that thunder rumbling from the heavens this afternoon. Now I know why. ;-)
Love,
M
Wow! I didn't realize your mom was going to get one too!
They look great, you are very brave, each of you (including Daughter #1 who got hers last week) and, for more reasons than getting a tatoo.
T and I are going to come see you tomorrow afternoon. We have a little something for son #1's b-day. Love you, K.
OH. MY. GOSH. What have I started??!!!!
Didn't it feel like you were being burned with a cigarette???!!!
I have NO IDEA why everyone says, "once you get one tattoo, it becomes addictive...you want more".
Uh...I don't think so!
I am done!
At least now I don't feel like such a dork for waiting so long to get one!
They all look great! Great ideas!!
I love yours J!!
Take care all you wild girls and SETTLE DOWN DOWN THERE!!!!!!!
Whew! I'm not sure we can move to Houston now...y'all are way too crazy!!!
;P
XOXO
K in AK
BTW, regarding what's next...
don't even think about an ear gauge like the guy who did your tatoo! But I'd be all for getting a motorcyle
Love,
M
Well now I feel pressured to go get my cover-up of my panther done. Unfortunately the guy said it would take 2-3 hours and I'm not too sure I'm up to that. I guess I will be if K1 tells me I will. I'm such a wuss, but what better to be whooped by than a woman??!!
I think the tats are AWESOME!! A tear welled up when I saw his signature on your wrist...too cool. You girls did awesome too...all three of you! And Mom??? Uhhhh...I didn't approve of this...did D? h well, I'm sure I did plenty of things without telling you too, huh? Where's the pic of Mom's???
Well Jim H. will be here Thursday, so don't expect to hear from me for about 10-12 days.
Love you all and miss you all terribly!
Litle Bro
OMG I can't believe you got a tattoo!! That is sooo totally cool, and I love it. I am very very curious what P thinks of all this ;) The tats seem so meaningul and especially the location, the wrist. Did it hurt like crazy?!! Happy bday S :)
P thinks it's cool --- he helped design the heart.
And yes it hurt .... very, very much. But it didn't last long.
Ahhhhhh! I am just to excited that you all finally got tats! I was just telling M the other day I wanted another one and now I know that I am going to do it! This one will hurt more than the first one. I am having it put in the small of my back (which ain't so small :) And I want to see mom's! Take a pic and lets see it! Love you tons!
The things we do for love....
Janine, I'm a friend of Daughters #2 & #3. I read your blog daily so that you and your family are in my prayers daily. I just wanted to let you know that I think you are extraordinarily beautiful - really - and you and your family teach me about perspective and inspire me to live genuinely. I hope to meet you at some point.
Oh...and the tattoos rock. :)
I love it! I love your tatoo - it is so beautiful in terms of creativity and meaning. And you my lady are so beautiful. Your face is stunning :)
xoxoxo
OMIGOSH!!!!
I love them! I'm so glad that you found such a wonderful, meaningful way to feel continually connected to Jim. I know that many people still look at tattoos as trashy, but I absolutely LOVE mine. I had it done last year. It's just over my buns in the small of my back and it's three flowers, connected. (One for each daughter.)
I have been THINKING about anothr one...maybe a daisy chain around my ankle, but Tosh isn't thrilled with the idea;) (although HE wants another one too!)
It's so cool that your mom got one with you! Way to go Lucy!
I was blown away when my grandmother saw mine when I was helping her move..and asked to look at it, then she said that she'd always wanted one! (My mom's mom.)
Well, welcome to the world of tats!
I love you:)
Lisanne
P.S. I was reading over the comments and two stuck out to me. When I opened up your blog and scrolled down and saw your face the first thing I thought was how beautiful you looked. I'm not kidding you do look GREAT!!! If only I was as lucky!! And you have to believe it is true cuz two other people said it!! Love you
P.S. I was reading over the comments and two stuck out to me. When I opened up your blog and scrolled down and saw your face the first thing I thought was how beautiful you looked. I'm not kidding you do look GREAT!!! If only I was as lucky!! And you have to believe it is true cuz two other people said it!! Love you
P.S.S. the ring you are wearing on your right hand in the second pic...that is my favorite piece of jewelry that Jim bought you. I''m thinking its like one of first in a long line of beautiful jewelry he got for you.
OH MY GOODNESS Janine!!! I miss reading for a few days and you have caused me to fall off my chair!! What an experience together....looks like they did a fantastic job. I'm speechless....and you know that's quite an accomplishment coming from me! :-)
Love to all,
Jenni Baeder
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