Sunday, April 13, 2008

Home again


This picture is of Jim and I think Son #3.  Not one hundred percent certain, but that's the kind of mom I am.
     I had a great weekend.  I am pooped.  Poor V -- I slept all the way to Tulsa in her car -- not a fun passenger.  Then I slept all the way home on the plane.  Now I am home with my crazy children.  Back in the zoo.
    I received a call from the security company at the lake last night around 11:30.  The alarm had gone off and they were sending the authorities out (she did not way what they were authorities in).  Son #3 and a wonderful friend went to the lake this morning to check everything (thank you, JD).  It seems that all is well and we're not sure what set the alarm off.  Unless a bug ran across the motion detector.  Anyway,  that was good to hear.
     It was great to renew old friendships and catch up with women whom I have loved over the years.  They all took great care of me and kept me laughing.  It was like we had never left each other and everyone looked great.  It was amazing how little everyone had changed (either that, or many, many of us need stronger glasses).  dsI, for one, did not close the bar down last night.  Midnight was about as far as I could go.  I'm not sure what happened after V & I left, though I'm sure it had to do with chanting and secret handshakes.  Oh, and can you believe how soon you forget a secret handshake?  And words to a secret song?!  I guess the whole "signed in blood" pact didn't have THAT much of an effect!
     I was exhausted and sad at the end of the night.  I hated to leave them.  I also hate it that the one person who knew many of these girls and with whom I would love to share the details about this weekend is no longer here.  He would have loved hearing how many of these women are doing and what's going on in their lives.  He would also have loved the pictures.  
     I really hope that we all keep in contact now and stay connected.  I need that.  I received a request to try to start a blog for the women in my pledge class.  I'll check into that and see if we can do it.  
     The kittens survived.  They seem to like each other now.  Colbie even got fixed and declawed.  Yay for me not having to be here for the aftermath, though Daughter #1 said she did really well.  I brought home gifts for them (note:  I did not bring home gifts for my ungrateful children.  Even the ones who read the blog and decided at the last minute to send me a text saying,  "I love and miss you, mom".  Like I didn't see through that!!  I didn't fall off the turnip truck yesterday, ya know (I think it was the day BEFORE yesterday). 
     On the excitement-front --- I'm off to see a new doctor for my shoulder tomorrow morning.  I've heard talk about shots.  I hope we determine what it actually is (besides a shoulder and old age) before we talk about sticking needles in it.  
     OK, time to play with my "babies" and think about dinner and then bed.
To all of you lovely, lovely Gamma Phis ---- I love you so much and miss you already.  Thank you for the thoughts and prayers.  Thank you for the laughs and the tears.  Thank you for helping to to finally have some fun.  A lot of fun.  I hope it doesn't take us nearly as long to do this again.
  You are amazing women.  Of course you are --- you're my sisters. 

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good evening my darling daughter. I'm glad you are safely home. And I'm so happy that you had so much fun and enjoyment out of your weekend. I'm so greatful to all your "sisters" for making it happen for you. They are all so special. Especially V. I know she will always be there for you. You have wonderful friends. I love them one and all. Now get some rest and get that shoulder taken care of. I love you immensely.

Unknown said...

It was an amazing weekend! Thanks for the new "STBY" I'm not sure I'll be able to use it for awhile or at least until my kids get to be in double digits. For a few days we were not Mom's but those 18,19, and 20 somethings we were so many years ago laughing and reminiscing. It was an awesome time and I too look forward to being with everyone again soon! I will continue to pray for you everyday. You are amazing and I'm grateful I can call you friend. I love you JT.
Julie

Anonymous said...

Your shoulder issue peeked my interest. I've dealt with a mysterious shoulder issue for 20 months. I was finally diagnosed 2 months ago with a frozen shoulder. If for any reason you might be on the path to a frozen shoulder it would be nice to catch it before you get stuck. Again it could be many things but I wish I knew a years ago of this possibility because I would have done things differently. I would not have rested it. The resting it helped the pain but then it caused it to freeze up. Very painful getting it unstuck. Moni B