Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Crawling through Boston

 
     Well, we did it again.  We walked and walked and walked.  We must've lost our minds after not having to walk a lot yesterday.
     Rain was predicted for yesterday (though evidently the weather forecasters here are no different than those in any other state) so Daughter #1 and I carried on a long-standing family tradition ...... we went to 2 movies.  
We also walked quite a bit but nothing in comparison to Sunday .... or today.
Last night we went to the Harbor and had dinner.  The day turned out be very nice.  
But not as nice as it was today!!  It was sunny and in the low 70's!  If it were like this all year round I'd move here.  But I know better.

     Here are some of the sites:
     Daughter #1 walking through Boston Commons, yesterday.

     Daughter #1 hat shopping.  The girl loves hats.

            As well she should.  In the T (Boston subway):


     This is a house in her neighborhood.  Note the tree growing under and in the porch.  Its branches also cover the entire length of the porch.  

     These are the donuts we smuggled into the movie theatre -- in an Apple bag.  Who says we aren't spy-material??

     This is proof of what she's doing to me .... and to herself!  She's putting a band aid onto her toe because of all of the walking!
     Here we are in the theatre.  I, too, bought a hat.  Unfortunately I do not pull it off as well as she does.


     The obligatory tennis courts shot (Boston Commons):

     This fine establishment was where we had dinner:


     Boston skyline from the Harbor:
                                     Harbor shot:
     Not sure if you can read this box, but it says East India Tea Company on it.  OK ..... really?!!
I did NOT just fall off of the turnip truck yesterday!

     This morning in the T.  We're getting a bit more tired-looking each day (and, it would appear, less favorable of my picture taking).

     These shots were for me playing around with the camera (on the grounds of Harvard):


     Eating shrimp at the Barking Crab.  They bark?  Who knew?!

     I love the churches in Boston:



     Daughter #1 buying some herb plants at an outdoor market downtown:

     This ends the pictorial tour.  

     And as for my Visa ..... we kind of know where it is.  I figured out that I had left it at a restaurant on Sunday.  The waitress did not work yesterday and the manager said it wasn't there.  I called tonight and yes, she did have it and she turned it in to another manager, who then turned it over to a 3rd member to put into the safe.  This he did not do.  And he was not at work today.  The first manager has left a message for him to see what he did with it.  He feels bad about it, but I'll give him a huge hug if I can get it tomorrow.  So far no one is using it --- unless manager #3 has run off to Rio with it and the charge hasn't gone through yet.
  So please keep praying.

     My mom seems to be hanging in there.  Nat took her to lunch yesterday.  I think K was taking them out to dinner tonight.  
She and Gabby are getting on well.  Although she told me that Gabby and Rigby have gotten into the paint.  I wonder if they did it to each other?

So all in all this has been a great trip.  I'm drinking in all of the time with Daughter #1.
But I've been dealing with some strange stuff.  Well, I think it's strange, but again .... I've never walked through this valley before.
I keep having flashbacks from the hospital.  From the time spent with Jim, the time in the waiting room with friends and the kids, waiting for the doctors .... to the worst flashback ..... going to see him when it was all over.  It's like a movie when a character flashes back to some war scene or something and everything around him in the present fades away.  
I was sitting on the subway this afternoon and suddenly everything faded and there I was .... looking at him again.  Wishing he would open his eyes.  Wishing I had stayed longer with him ... before and after.  
Wishing .........

I don't believe in wishes anymore.

Add it to the list.


P.S.  OMG, it's time for an Ambien.  She's making me watch Hilary.
HELP ME!!!

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey J!

So very glad you are having a great time with W. Please tell her she is a very beautiful girl and she DOES carry off hats quite well!! What movies did you guys see? It sucks and I can't imagine what it must feel like to have the flashbacks, but I am praying that your flashbacks will bring some kind of meaning or message.

Love,
Melanie

Anonymous said...

I don't think flashbacks are strange. I think it's probably normal in the same way we think about the best times with those we have lost. The absolute worst times are there too. I try to focus more on the best times but sometimes I can't help it.
Shelby asked me tonight if there is cake in heaven. I told her I wasn't sure but that everyone we love will be there and because we have Jesus, we will see them again one day. She replied, "They better not eat all the cake before I get there."
Glad you're having a great time in Boston. Love you.

Janine said...

Thanks, Melanie. All prayers are always appreciated. :)

And thanks for the smile, Tamara. I love your kids .... and you, of course!

Anonymous said...

Uh-oh...Hilary? I'd have to draw the line there, even if she DOES look awfully cute in hats! (and you're still pretty cute in them too, even if you don't think so;)
I'm glad that you sort of found the card and I'll continue to pray that you get it back tomorrow. I have to take Savannah school shopping tomorrow...oh joy! (She's 13 and extremely picky and opinionated, knows everything and thinks her mother is completely old and out of touch!)
We're going to the lake to camp over the weekend, but I'll be thinking about you and keeping you close in my heart and prayers.
I love you Sis,

Lis

Anonymous said...

Good morning my darling daughter. Hilary?!? ROFLMAO!! Like I said previously....you have great timing. Are you at least getting to watch any of the Open?

Whitney is just breathtakingly beautiful, and that head was explicitly made for hats. I always
loved hats, just didn't have the intestinal fortitude to wear them...no one wore hats, therefore I would buy them and not wear them...still do. LOL

Go get your cc and tell that establishment they need to get their ducks in a row. Talk about a lack of communication!

K took the boys and me out to dinner last night. It was really nice and yummy. D is pouting because he is eating left overs and sandwiches. "Old Food" he calls it, while I'm getting "New Food". LOL I told him he'd get "New Food" when I get back. He sniffled.

Have a fun day and I'll see you tomorrow night. I love you bunches.

Anonymous said...

Even if you do get your card back . . . I would call your card company back and get it cancelled and reissued. Seriously think about it. What kind of tip did you give that waitress anyway?